From Michigan to Kenya and back, this is the true life story of a crazy family and their desire to follow Christ, wherever that may lead them. Mounds of Stone is our best attempt to organize our thoughts, chronicle our lives, and keep our friends, family, and supporters updated on all things Mitchell. Each entry is a small mound of stones to memorialize where God has been faithful.

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Tale of Two Gardeners

A wise person once told me that the Christians who are truly living their faith are those who have invested in someone and then seen that person grow and flourish in their faith…yet have also invested in someone and been disappointed when he/she turns their back on you and rejects what you taught.  This is not to say that I’m the model Christian, but I’m definitely learning.

Aaron (name changed) is a young man who we met when we first arrived here at Tenwek.  At the time, he had a new wife and young child and needed a job.  He had been an apprentice to the neighbor’s gardener and was ready to start working for us once we got settled in.  (Being a gardener at the Mitchell's isn’t hard.  Our garden is small and basic, our yard just needs the leaves raked, and we aren’t picky. A perfect job.)  It was great to get to know Aaron and we even spent some time sitting and chatting about life, reading the Bible together, and praying. He proclaimed that he was a Christian and was trying his best despite his struggles in the past.  (Aaron could relate well to the story of the prodigal son.  He really did ask his dad for his inheritance early, his share of the family land, and then sold it…using the money in not so productive ways.  However, unlike the prodigal son he wasn’t welcomed back into his family.)  Although I never felt like Aaron and I were close buddies, I tried to disciple him the best I knew how.  Unfortunately, Aaron slipped back into destructive patterns of behavior and we had no choice but to let him go as our gardener.  Even though he wasn’t working for us any longer, he would still come by the house on Sunday afternoons to chat, and ask for ways he could earn some money. The discipleship continued.  He wanted to start up a small business selling eggs, so we worked out a business model that would allow him to cover his costs and make some profit.  He saved up some money and I matched it so he could buy six chickens.  After that day Aaron stopped coming by the house.  I heard from one of his relatives that he has fallen off the wagon again.  I haven’t seen Aaron in months.

We needed a new gardener.  A long time missionary family recommended another young man to us and said, “He might not be a seasoned gardener, but his is a great guy and will love your kids.” Adison started working for us, and over the weeks I got to know his story.  At age ten his mother died and his alcoholic father took him out into the forest and abandoned him.  By God’s grace he found his way to help and ended up in a children’s home that was started by Tenwek missionaries. He eventually went away to boarding school for high school (almost all Kenyans go to a boarding high school) and he graduated last year with less than stellar grades.  Through connections, he found his way to Tenwek and eventually to our garden.

The relationship started out similar to the one I had with Aaron; we spent some time sitting and chatting about life, reading the Bible together, and praying.  However, Adison really soaked up what we talked about.  Our relationship grew and he became more than a gardener, he became part of our family.  We shared meals together, he played with the boys, and he got to know Erin’s parents when they came to visit.  We joked that he was my oldest son, and I was the mzee (Swahili for “old man”).
When not working for us (our yard is only big enough to warrant two days a week of work), Adison found his way over to our neighbor’s, the Espy’s, where he developed an equally good relationship with their family.  Instead of having no family, he now has two.


Adison decided that he didn’t want to be a gardener for life (I didn’t blame him) and wanted to go to nursing school, but his high school grades weren’t good enough to get in.  However, he was humble enough to re-enroll into boarding school to redo his senior year and improve his scores.   So, we lost another gardener.  But…the story doesn’t end there.

About a month ago Adison came back to Tenwek during a short break and spent some time with us and the Espy's.  He told us that school had been going well, and he was trying to be a light to the 1100 students there.  He had purposefully made friends with “the bad crowd” because he wanted to have a positive influence on them.  “It isn’t the healthy people who go see you at the hospital,” he told me.   Adison told us one of his new friends, Isaac, had been a repeat offender at school and was inches away from being expelled.  However, his latest suspension had caused an awakening, and Isaac realized his pattern of poor behavior needed to change.  He turned to Adison for prayer and advice, and Adison led him to Christ.  The next week, when Isaac gave his testimony during a chapel service, Adison said “The students were in shock that Isaac, the worst behaved kid in school, had been changed by God’s grace.  Sixteen other students have since become Christian’s because of Isaac’s testimony.”

Adison, now elected as student body president, invited me to speak at his school’s chapel service last Sunday.  I got to set aside my scrubs and venture away from the hospital to speak to a “congregation” of 1100 high school students.
Dr. Mitchell a Pastor?


I talked about the parable of the four soils found in Luke 8.  I knew that some of the students had hearts like the soil found on the beaten path, and that the gospel would not grow in them until the soil had been tilled.  I knew that some were like the rocky soil, that their faith was shallow and without root.  I knew that some were like the soil that contained thorns; the seed was trying to grow and mature but was choked by the worries and pleasures of this life.  I also knew that there were some students who were like the fertile soil, with the seed of the gospel maturing within them and yielding a crop 100 times more than was sown.  I knew this because I saw Adison there in the audience as well as the 16 new Christians that were a product of his ministry.  Most importantly, I was encouraged because I got to meet Isaac.
Isaac, Me, and Adison

Isaac is a Christian because of Adison's deep faith put into practice.  Adison's faith is maturing partly because of our relationship.  We are here in Kenya because of all of you back home who support us both financially and prayerfully.  Thank you!


Friday, October 10, 2014

A typical day?


Someone recently asked me to blog about a typical day for me. So, let's take Wednesday.

5:45 a.m   Alarm goes off and I drag myself out of bed to go running. It is really the only time of day that works, and thankfully this time of the year it is actually light outside by 6:00 a.m.!

6:45 a.m.  Come home: shower, dress, read Tucker approximately 13 books, make breakfast, eat with the boys, get everyone dressed, clear table, read Tucker 14 more books, tidy up a smidge (ok, who am I kidding, I trip over a book and it flies under the couch), look for lost shoes for 15 minutes, gather 3 out of 4 children and head up the hill to school.

9:00 a.m.     Teach 4 fidgety delightful 1st graders the joys of reading, the consonant blends -st and -cl, parts of a flower, and how to subtract.

11:55 a.m.   Dismiss class and quickly try to get prepped for tomorrow. Then, collect Tucker, run around doing a few errands, and head home at 12:30 to try to get lunch ready for guests.

12:30 p.m.   Arrive home to electricity- score! (This week they have been working on the hydroelectric turbine so we have had very inconsistent electricity) Run around setting the table, taking Tucker potty, etc. My househelper has gone to a funeral so I am reheating something made yesterday for my family and 4 guests. Tell Tucker I cannot possibly read him the 6 books he is holding right at this moment.

12:50 p.m. Power out- drat! Right as I am about to use the microwave! Go to back-up plan of heating lentils and rice on the stove. Rice does not reheat well on the stove-akk! Burning rice aroma lofting through the house. Stir, stir, stir.

12:55 p.m. Guests start arriving. Tell Tucker to let them in and try to finish lunch prep, stirring burning rice, etc.

12:59 p.m. Electricity comes back on! Saved~ throw rice in microwave. Hear screaming coming from outside. Tell guests to make themselves comfy, head out to see what is going on.

1:02 p.m. Alex and Cooper arrive home. Cooper is screaming at the top of his lungs b/c he slipped and fell in cow poop on the way home. Arms, shirt covered. However, he cares not about this. Apparently he cut his toe as well b/c the only pair of Crocs he owns have two worn holes in both big toes, but refuses to wear anything else. Mental note: find a way to get this child new shoes. Back to reality: I have a kid covered in cow poop, 4 guests in my living room, no food on the table.....where is Eric??? Why can he never come for lunch on the days that my life is in ruins?? Murphy's law I suppose.

Try to talk Cooper down from hysteria. Not succeeding. Rip cow poop shirt off of him, try to get him to go into the bathroom, but he doesn't want the guests to see him without a shirt, and mom, didn't you see my toe is bleeding?!?!!? Drag kicking and screaming modest child through living room to bathroom while apologizing to guests.

Wait, where are AJ and Tucker? Steal a glance out the window in time to see them and their partner in crime, Ivey, using the hose to make a mud pit in the garden. Did I mention I had already washed them up and they were ready to eat? No more, my friends, no more.
Why am I all alone in the world with these 4 savage beasts children???

Throw Cooper in the tub, bandage his wounds, round up other children, clean them, throw not-quite-warm food on the table, manage to eat with guests while we are serenaded by the still crying Cooper, finish the meal.

2:30 p.m.-  get littles down for nap, help a friend with a project after nap, try to throw together something for dinner in the no-more-electricity kitchen.

5:30 p.m.- Eric gets home, saves me from the children (read: myself), eat dinner.

6:45 p.m. - Head to parent teacher conferences where I am the parent in some and the teacher in others.

9:00- p.m.  Crawl home and collapse on the couch.

So, maybe this isn't quite typical, but you never know when a day like this will pop up. I'm sure all moms of small savage beasts can relate!