Part II
By the grace of God another missionary, a seasoned pediatric
ER doctor, was awaiting us in Bujumbura.
He had prepared a spot for Cole at the primary teaching hospital for
Hope Africa University. Cole wouldn’t
officially be admitted, but would have a bed to use as a waiting area until the
medi-evac plan arrived. It was amazing
how many doctors were available to participate in Cole’s care. Brain power was not the limiting factor. It was resources. Even at this university teaching hospital,
there was no ICU, no ventilators, one tank of oxygen, and very basic lab
tests. By going to Nairobi we were
trading control of Cole’s care for better resources in case he got worse. I was ok with that, but knew it would be hard
to give up the ability to order the drugs/tests/surgeries that I thought were
best.
In good African time, the plane arrived a little later than
expected, around 10:00pm Burundi time.
It had been a little more than twelve hours since we made the decision
to evacuate, and the plane was finally here.
Erin and I realized how American we are, and that we are spoiled. In the US, a quick 911 phone call gets you an
ambulance within 10 minutes. It took me
at least 20 phone calls and we were frustrated there wasn’t a plane there for
us immediately. “What if Cole had
continued to get worse and was dying?” she asked. “How would the evacuation people explain
their delay?”
I responded by saying, “Well, they would say, ‘You shouldn’t
travel to such a remote area. That’s a
risk you take.’” In all honesty,
mobilizing all these resources within twelve hours is pretty good.
Upon arrival at Kenyatta airport in Nairobi we were met by
an ambulance that took us straight to the ER of Gertrude’s Children’s Hospital,
the only children’s hospital in East Africa.
Day 6 Thursday March 22
At 5:30am we found ourselves half awake and in the “ER” of
the children’s hospital. We didn’t see
any doctors, just a nurse who asked, “Who is your doctor?” I wanted to say, “Whoever YOUR attending
doctor is for this shift.” But, I
quickly realized that this was not an American emergency room ready to triage
everyone who walks into the door. It was
more like an outpatient clinic that did intake for the hospital. Thankfully, my support system from the days
in Kenya at Tenwek Hospital had made me a recommendation for an orthopedic
surgeon in Nairobi. I told the nurse his
name, Dr. Murilla, and it worked. She
said she would call him.
We got admitted with some verbal orders, and by that time
Cole had started to feel ill again. His
fever started coming back and he was teary that they wanted to draw blood from
him. He was complaining of more pain in
his leg and I could see some redness. I
knew it needed opened, but I couldn’t do it.
I had the nurse call the doctor, and she said he was in surgery…at
another hospital…an hour across town.
“He will come in about four hours.”
I knew what that meant. I’d see
him in six or eight. There are three
lies that surgeons tell all the time.
“This won’t hurt, I’m almost done, and I’ll be there in ____ amount of
time.” I got pretty anxious as I felt
helpless.
Small miracle…the doctor actually came in four hours. Dr. Murilla was tall, thin, well dressed, and
confident. A true Nairobi surgeon. After examining Cole’s leg, he wanted to give
it more time and see what it looked like the next morning. I strongly disagreed as he had all the
markers of continued infection. Fever,
pain, redness, elevated WBC count. I
“calmly” stated my case…which in reality wasn’t very calm. He told me I was acting like a father and not
like a surgeon. It was true, my sleep
deprived emotions were that of a father…but my judgment was the same as if Cole
were a strangers child. We compromised
that he would come back after his day of surgeries and wash him out at 10:00pm. Deal.
Now I just had to sit back and wait nine hours.
Meanwhile, Erin and the kids had just arrived in Nairobi and
were met by a friend from Tenwek named Theresa.
Theresa was an answer to prayer. As soon as she heard about our
situation she immediately decided to come help, and arrange the logistics of lodging
and transportation for the family. She
was the perfect Ying to Erin’s Yang.
Erin was an emotional basket case, and Theresa was a familiar face who
could provide comfort as well as take charge.
If you have ever waited for a loved one during surgery, you
know that it is not fun to wait alone. While
I waited, God had provided for me the perfect companion to wait with. Dr. Mike Ganey, a pediatric surgeon who had
arrived to Tenwek just after we left in 2015, was not only an expert I could
run things by, but he was also a calm presence that was the Ying to my Yang. He didn’t have to come, as we didn’t even
know each other that well. Later, he
told me that he and his wife were having their morning devotions on the back
porch when God told both of them that Mike should come to Nairobi to support me
while I cared for Cole. Thankfully he
obeyed and we had a great evening together.
There were two things that had to happen that night (in my
mind) for Cole to get better. First, the
surgeon had to keep his word and actually show up for the 10:00 surgery. I had a suspicion that he would delay it
until the next morning. Secondly, I was
on a mission to get Cole on the proper antibiotics, recommended by several
textbooks and one of my best friends Mike Davis, an expert trained in
infectious diseases. Cole was on
clindamycin, but I thought he needed to be on a penicillin like cloxacillin or
flucloxacillin. In my sleepless anxiety
ridden state, I was pressuring everyone I could find to give him the proper antibiotics. Finally I found a loophole in the
system. If ever a nurse was “concerned”
about a patient, the ICU doctor could leave the ICU and come evaluate the
patient. I convinced the nurse to call
the ICU doctor. My friend Mike Davis
texted me that he was fervently praying about how Cole could get the right
antibiotics. At the exact moment he sent
the text, the ICU doctor walked in and agreed what the first line antibiotics
should be. I was thankful. In retrospect, I was probably a little
overzealous about the antibiotics issue, but I saw it as being “an
advocate.” The whole time Mike Ganey
just calmly watched Cole and his breathing pattern. Without the emotional attachment of being his
father, he knew that Cole would survive to the washout with the antibiotics he
was on.
Ten o’clock came and went, and still no surgeon. I didn’t get more worried, because almost none of my surgeries start exactly on time. Eventually Dr. Murilla showed up and Cole went back for his second surgery. He was nervous but bravely left me at the door this time. No longer was I his surgeon...I was a only a father now who had to wait in the waiting room. The ortho doctor opened up our stitches, washed out the wound, and put on a dressing. Cole did well and in recovery room, his fever had gone away. Now, I could sleep.
A truly touching account. And the timing of God's care is always impeccable and heart-lifting. What a blessing through such a difficult journey. We are continuing to pray for Cole, and all of you, including his medical team.
ReplyDeletePraise God for His blessings. We are glad Michael could be there for you.
ReplyDeleteWe and our church here in Tennessee are continuing to pray for you all.
Praise God his timing is perfect! Praying continues healing for Cole and peace for your family.
ReplyDeleteWow!! Amazing story! God is SO good! So many people have and continue to help/support you, Cole, and your family. Praying for Cole’s healing, and that you all have a safe trip home!
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